Well after about 2000 miles, the car seems to be more sensitive to throttle tham before but after the stupid tranny did its learning, the lag is slowly showing up again. One bug thing I've noticed is that rev matching in D mode. If you brake hard and then step on the gas, the car gets a lower gear and flies. Much better than before. Let's see what I get in the next few weeks of driving.

 

A custom ECU tune from an uprev protuner can help with this a lot too, might check if there's a protuner in your area