Well........ seems like last month (April) was the worst month of my 20 yrs. And I don't know what to do cause its stressing me out. In the last month I had beef with my best friend I known since middle school. I don't talk to him no more but thats because he screwed me over. Than of course I get the ticket in Va lol and find out my grandfather has lung cancer. Then when I think it can't get any worse... on the last day of the month!... my girlfriend breaks up with me after 3 and half yrs and reason is because the feelings have changed.

What can I do? I don't have a job or school right now so all I do is think about my problems. I kno it takes time to move on but its seems like time is taking forever

 

maybe get a job to get it off your mind.

 

^^ get a job...

 

or simply just end it....j/k...Don't do that or your out of the club

anyhow getting a job or doing some activities to get your mind off of things will do you some just...Remember these events you are going through are part of life. We simply have to know how to deal with them. Placing heavy thoughts into them only makes things worse.

 

mannn, Glenn sure has a way with words...
but yeah, getting a job is one way to place your mind elsewhere. or you could host a bbq every weekend for your NGC peeps!

 

its not gonna get any better until you're about 26. then it slowly gets better.

 

Get a job, make new friends, meet new women and tell your grandmother that you love her.

Life isn't always a bed of roses, but one thing is for sure, it keeps moving on and you have to suck it up and move with it.

Feelings do change, how old are you? Most likely you will change in the coming years. Remember the good things (the sex) and move on to the next one.

 

^ Exactly and I also recommend reading the Bible if you really start to feel lost. (No not the verse from Pulp Fiction )

I always tells people that "The Lord knows just how much you can bare"

If you want some scriptures to read...I can send you some, just PM me

 

This blows... cause I have a job lined up and everything just can't start it yet till mid June!

Yea. I'm only 20 so I got a long way to go. Klok if u want to send me some I'll be glad to read them.

 

^^^That can be a good thing, get outside and enjoy the weather!

 

Yeah man- every chance you get, just sit back and take a deep breathe and think about how lucky you are for the things you DO have going for you. Even think of the positive aspects that are in the negatives. ie/ how lucky you are to have gotten to spend as much time as you have with your grandfather and how many great memories you have made because of it. or how much you have learned about relationships and what you want in a girl from your long relationship and how thats going to make it that much easier when you find the ACTUAL right one that appreciates you and reciprocates your feelings....

my life motto- 'everything always ends up OK' just ride the waves bro and youll be back on top in no time....

 

that is a tough month man. Tough to realize man, but it can ALWAYS be worse. Keep busy with something(s).

 

Go out have fun. Try not to think about that negatives. Find something to do with your time (take your G apart and find out what goes where) to get your mind off things. Girls come a dime a dozen so if your girlfriend broke up with you because of feelings she'll try to come back when she see's how much more better you are doing or how much more prettier your current girlfriend will be. Start a project or something around the house. Just do soemthing other than think about the bad times. We all have them or had them.

 

+1
you're 20. you still have the rest of your life to experience. take your experiences and keep on truckin.

 

lifes a garden, You gotta dig it.


















J/K Best of luck to ya, It could be a lot worse. Be thankful for what you do have and focus on those things...