Dont stress it, I had my girlfriend break up wth me after 3 and half years too and at first i was feeling the same way and then sooner or later you realize that there are better looking girls out there and then you find one that catchs your interest in other ways and your back in another relationship. It takes time but youll get through it. KEEP BUSY

 

I think about the times where I had rough spots and totally understand where you're coming from. You feel really alone at that point. Really as everyone said the important thing is to be around your friends as much as possible. Keep your mind off of things and also once you start working you'll get back in the routine. Use your friends as a crutch and they will pull through for you. Going out and meeting others will also too!

 

that's how u earn experience of everything~~ Life never been easy~~ i suggest you get a job first~~

 

you can start by washing and clay baring my car today. I will expect you at 6pm sharp

j/k!

 

damn bro, sorry to hear about this. i hope me selling the springs didnt add to it!! Ive had the same feelings at times...when $hit goes bad, it goes bad. you lose your job, your girl leaves you and your friends pull away and your parents want you out....

At that exact moment you start to question your existence. You start to wonder what the point of life is...

Ive been there many times, bad stuff seems to all come at once for me at least. But the one thing I've learned is that if we never feel the bad/sad moments, we will truly never know/appreciate the good moments. Life is about balance, and trust me, the bright side is near for you. B/c the best way to look at things now is 'Cant get any worse' and it truly cant!!

 

Yeah man, I had a rough April too. I was working 70 hrs/week and wanting to quit my stressful job (but having to make my $650/month car/insurance payment and $800 rent payment doesn't really make quitting an option). I was neglecting myself, family, and friends. Personal issues (grandma had a stroke, no love from the ladies, friends moving etc.) seemed to pile up and make things worse.
I was having trouble sleeping at night until I started working out. For the past 3 weeks I have played basketball and lifted weights every single day and I feel a lot better and I look like a beefcake . When you are sad or angry, it just helps to push your body to it's limit and relieve your mental and physical stresses.
So yeah, my advice is just to exercise heavily.

Good luck to you, and always remember, you drive a G. You are better than everyone else!

 

can't be bad as mine...

im a crack addict!

 

Try to stay busy and think of other things. Go out and meet new girls (you can do that now). Take it one day at a time, and one obstacle at a time (works the best for me).

 

Thanks for the words. I was just out so that helped get my mind outta things. But this is definately a learning experience for me and time to enjoy life

That means HGC HH lol

 

Thats messed up man! Sorry to hear all about that, but yes life will move on. As for your g/f just be glad it was now and not further down the road, you know? You are only 20 years old, as am I, but there are a million other fish in the sea as they say. You will find someone who cares about you more, loves you more, and agrees with you more than her! Trust me!

Everything will work out for you! I would subjest just going somewhere and getting a job or doing something to help get your mind off of it all. When i broke up with my g/f after 2 1/2 years the next couple months were rough and nothing seemed to go well, but i worked just about everyday for those 2-3 months and it helped alot...plus i made a lot of money!

Hope everything works out for you!!

-Sean

 

j/k

just keep your hopes up!... u have to realize that we live in a really selfish world. just try to look at the good side of things.

being optimisitc really goes a long way, even in hard times..

"you can take freedom or any ability of man away, but you can't take away their hope! "

 

Yup, around 20 years old was when i had the hardest times of my life

i was out on an 8 month deployment, 45 days on the ocean at a time, g/f left, family was not there for me, friends were hard to find, .. but i just kept thinking about how much better things will be down the road.. and it was!

 

Buying new car parts alway make my life better. Get something that is a DIY. Not only are you upgrading the car but doing the work will also keep your mind busy.

 

Stay active man. Go to the gym, go to the track, HH, hang out with friends, pretty much anything to get you out of the house. There's always light at the end of the tunnel.

 

I'm an attorney in NOVA (and the lead car as we left skyline drive. You should have just stayed in line when I made that wrong turn, that ticket would be for me).

I'll handle your ticket for cheap. We can figure something out. PM me.