Sorry man... but sounds like she hooked up with someone else.

Just don't call her. "Easier said than done," I know but just keep busy, go out with your boys and hook up with as many hot chicks as you can until you get over her. You'll be fine.

 

forget about it

 

+1
Girlfriend for three years broke up with me. I realized I depended on her too much (for love and finance). After the break-up, I focused on myself, worked out everyday, got a job, did extremely well in college, and dated a few women. Three years later, she begged for forgiveness and to take her back. I broke up with my girlfriend at the time, and married my Ex.

 

Move on. Same thing happen to me, but I was living with the B!tch. We was together for 3 years and she started going out a lot during the week, to make a long story short. I got tired of the **** and told her I was bouncing. Come to find out she was cheating on me with a bartender. Something I call (The Maintenance man - someone picking up the slack when I'm working hard for the future). So I bounced bought a house within 2 months and been looking good since. The next month after bouncing she was pregnant with a low life drunk. Still to this day she calls me crying, talking about how she f'cked up a great relationship and how she never ment to hurt me. I just laugh it off. The point of the my experience is to move on to bigger and better things. Show her that ya breaking up made your life better. You just dont know how much @ss will come to you. You'll think about her everyday right now, then it will turn into every week then months, then to d@mn I wonder how shorty is doing. Good luck with having fun. Get out the house and explorer.

Bruce

 

^^ now that sounds like some sound advice if I ever heard any.

 

oh.... that's *** up! u worked 30hrs a week to make her happy, and she said she needs a break? BS! girls do that 99% when they starting to see some1 new. I know exactly how u feel man. my ex did the same thing. only time will easy your anger bro. I know u r pretty upset now wondering just what the *** u did wrong?!! just try not to listen to sad music. ALL GIRLS ARE TRIP!!!!!

 

Everyone is giving some good advice. I was in a long relationship 5+ years and of course when it ended I was upset. But now I am just enjoying life...and wonder how much I've been missing and wasting away being with just one person. GFs have become like "wives" in the fact that they consume too much of your time. Just enjoy your free time doing things you want to do...and not what someone else wants you to do for a change. I have actually lost contact with a lot of freinds through the 5+ years.... but now I am finally remembering how fun life was... enjoy!

 

Lek also remembered how good food tasted too j/k!

Remember a few tips though.

1) Dont rebound. The last thing you need now is a rebound chic. That will hurt your healing process more than heal it.

2) It may be hard but dont engulf yourself in self pitty. Be around active things/people to help time pass by. i.e. dont sit around in your room reminiscing on how things were and fall into a sob story.

3) Dont rebound. The last thing you need now is a rebound chic. That will hurt your healing process more than heal it.


as no.2 stated, just get out more, study harder, enjoy your hobbies, etc...

whatever it may be, keep it positive

If you want some guys to hang out with, PM me and I will get you my number.

 

I disagree, best thing to get your mind of a girl, is another girl..ahaha , John is probably right. Definitely hang out with your people and be active. Don't ever be at home on a weekend night, cuz then you're going to start thinking. Just look at it this way, she obviously has some issue where she feel the need to not be with you. If that's the case, why force the relationship? Don't waste your time trying to figure out "WHY?". Just look forward and move on.


~Khoa

 

This same thing happened to me almost exactly one year ago: GF of almost 4 years broke up with me because she wanted to know what it was like to be independent (we had no major issues in the relationship). Turns out, she started dating another guy 3 weeks later. I thought that there was no way she had cheated on me, and she even said over and over that there was no other guy, but obviously, she lied. From this experience, I have a few points of advice:

1) Don't trust her...she probably has been with another guy or is at least interested enough in pursuing another guy that she wanted to take the break. Women never leave a man unless they have something else (i.e., a new man) to fall back on.

2) Don't just wait around for her and don't keep calling her. The best advice (especially while you're still in college with easier opportunities to capitalize) is to hook up/sleep with as many girls (preferrably hot ones) as you can. If you do get back together with your girl, you don't want to regret not enjoying this time of freedom cause you may never have it again! It is better to go cold turkey and not really keep in touch with her unless she clearly shows she is regretful and sorry for breaking up with you and wants nothing more but to have you back. It will be too painful for you to keep in touch with her as long as she continues on her "break" theory. Remember, women are manipulative, so she will do whatever she can to keep you interested, but not committ to you...they always want their cake and to eat it too.

3) Date other chicks and move on. This girl is probably not worth it, and although you may really love her or want to be with her now (I felt this way), there are a ton of great girls out there and you are way too young to be so settled down anyways. I tried rekindling with my girl, but it was never the same. I have since dated two other girls, including the one I'm with now, and if you do the same, you will realize that different women have different things to offer and you may even be happier than you were with your EX.

Anyways, good luck...stay busy and bang a lot of hot chicks!

 

Thanks again for all the replies, I've been trying to keep myself busy with school work, work, and just going out with friends. I guess things are better now than they were a few days ago. I still can't help but wonder if she really is cheating on me. I really doubt that, but as you guys said, I guess I can never be too sure. Just gotta chill out now, and enjoy life Thanks again everyone!

 

Jee, you can get my number from the Members Only forum. Hit me up if you ever need to talk or chill or whatever. Good luck.

 

X2.....take the opportunity to move on and grow...the next one will be much better!

 

my philosophy on women in terms of breakup/makeup...

once its over its over...i typically lose that 'feeling' once the girl ****s w/ my head...and i get turned off. after that i'll try my best to get over it (date another chick) and just hate **** her. hate ****=take out all your frustrations/anger on her while u do her just to get it out your system. this is best when doing it doggystyle real hard and while your going back/forth going straight to 'no-mans land' aka her a$$ without her permission or w/o giving her much of a chance to say NOOO...best form of revenge IMHO....let her feel the wrath!!

 

Awe G club counseling......Yeah dude you got that hot *** g you could drive to the grocery store and get some *** with that.Let me tell you she got someone .A guy will tell here whatever it takes to get some .He may have tons of money .Maybe he will have his own place.Sometimes they have nothing .Rule number one in the players club .This is a mans world.Don't let them run you.You can't control her actions .She will try to get back .Sorry to say it but as soon as dude gets his fill he will get tired and cut her off.Then she will think of you .Thats when you show up with a hottie .She will feel like the biggest dumby in the world.She just got played .If you were together for 3 years there was something she liked.You don't just stop likeing ice cream or cake .Someone she things has something better .That will fizzle.Do not ,i say do not call at all .Find you a new friend to spend time with .Hit the weight room get in shape smile .Ladies will see you then you will be glad she is gone peace.